When one makes new and validating relationships to progress, shine and grow in life then it also brings some risks along, in order to challenge our thinking, tolerance and self-assurance capabilities. These are generally positive stages to improve one's personality, confidence and self-reliance skills. But our perception in deeming all these hurdles as negative restricts our approach to have a positive outlook on these problems.
Thus, this conventional approach deepens the negativity further and infiltrates more hatred and insecurity within. What are those attitudes, which can help us, consider ourselves larger than tribulations and challenges of life? What are the exact ways to deal with our incessant worries, fears, and insecurities? In my opinion, some are quite reassuring and substantial ways to deal with. Those are mentioned below:
Read
When you are sure that you are an introvert or in a limited circle or restricted culture where you are not able to restore connections well or cannot have more interactional experiences to learn; then go for reading. Reading provides you with a platform where you can play wisely by keeping yourself in another's shoe and think about the best ways to deal with any difficult situation. It which would help you building up the different perspectives regarding any trouble. It also allows acceptance for diversity. The containment of emotions comes in the form of suppression (a good defense mechanism). This containment of emotions comes when one anticipates the consequences and later complications of a situation.
Use Humor
In psychology, it is one of the mature and best defense mechanism to acquire and deal with any setback. It minimizes the situational hurdles and broadens up the horizon to tackle the situation. Unconsciously it provides the relief that you have a better control over the situation than anyone else.
The Ultimate Gain
Before embarking upon any argument or tussle, do give a thought about the ultimate goal. What you really want out of this? Zoom out of the setting and focus on the purpose of yourself being in any given state. The Purpose In any good or bad contexts, think yourself or idealise yourself to be larger than life. The purpose of ones life should not be to entangle him or herself in complexities of interpersonal conflicts but how to see the positivity in a situation which is usually least considered by people around.
Observe
It bestows preemptive wisdom, which means the ability to foresee the consequences of ones action on time or before time to gear ones thoughts and actions accordingly. Train Your Mind It does not come easily. In the eastern culture where the family life and boundaries are well developed and compact in nature, one tends to see more skirmishes, comes across with more unpleasant encounters and has more complaints. This customary social structure has facilitated the culture of hostility within its followers, which is quite prevalent from last many ages. It needs a lot of effort to train ones mind to see positives in any state of affair. It requires rehearsal and reading optimistic and resilient appraisals of life and the ability to identify internal cognitive biases.
Conclusion
These are few technical ways to be kinder to others in life, to grow progressive experiences around, to be more forgiving and to see oneself beyond the borders of physical existence and in the spiritual realm.
Thus, this conventional approach deepens the negativity further and infiltrates more hatred and insecurity within. What are those attitudes, which can help us, consider ourselves larger than tribulations and challenges of life? What are the exact ways to deal with our incessant worries, fears, and insecurities? In my opinion, some are quite reassuring and substantial ways to deal with. Those are mentioned below:
Read
When you are sure that you are an introvert or in a limited circle or restricted culture where you are not able to restore connections well or cannot have more interactional experiences to learn; then go for reading. Reading provides you with a platform where you can play wisely by keeping yourself in another's shoe and think about the best ways to deal with any difficult situation. It which would help you building up the different perspectives regarding any trouble. It also allows acceptance for diversity. The containment of emotions comes in the form of suppression (a good defense mechanism). This containment of emotions comes when one anticipates the consequences and later complications of a situation.
Use Humor
In psychology, it is one of the mature and best defense mechanism to acquire and deal with any setback. It minimizes the situational hurdles and broadens up the horizon to tackle the situation. Unconsciously it provides the relief that you have a better control over the situation than anyone else.
The Ultimate Gain
Before embarking upon any argument or tussle, do give a thought about the ultimate goal. What you really want out of this? Zoom out of the setting and focus on the purpose of yourself being in any given state. The Purpose In any good or bad contexts, think yourself or idealise yourself to be larger than life. The purpose of ones life should not be to entangle him or herself in complexities of interpersonal conflicts but how to see the positivity in a situation which is usually least considered by people around.
Observe
It bestows preemptive wisdom, which means the ability to foresee the consequences of ones action on time or before time to gear ones thoughts and actions accordingly. Train Your Mind It does not come easily. In the eastern culture where the family life and boundaries are well developed and compact in nature, one tends to see more skirmishes, comes across with more unpleasant encounters and has more complaints. This customary social structure has facilitated the culture of hostility within its followers, which is quite prevalent from last many ages. It needs a lot of effort to train ones mind to see positives in any state of affair. It requires rehearsal and reading optimistic and resilient appraisals of life and the ability to identify internal cognitive biases.
Conclusion
These are few technical ways to be kinder to others in life, to grow progressive experiences around, to be more forgiving and to see oneself beyond the borders of physical existence and in the spiritual realm.
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